Friday, January 3, 2014

When Godly People Give You Ungodly Advice



 

Let me start out by saying everyone is sinful! There is only one person who is sinless and His name is Jesus Christ. He was born of a virgin, lived a perfect life, and then took on our sins, and died on the cross for you and me.  No one is perfect except Jesus Christ!  With that said, lets dive into this devotion:

 

 

Have you ever been in a place that you just needed advice? I have, and I have gone to certain people who have given me some great advice, and some who have given me really bad advice. Once I became Christian, I started praying and looking for the right godly woman who could encourage me in my process with the Lord, and give me godly advice when needed. Although God puts godly people in our path to help us grow, but the only person who we should listen to for wisdom and advice is God and God alone! God is the creator and giver of wisdom! And He is very clear in that “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” James 1:5

 

Let’s take a look at the book of Job. He was a man that went through great suffering; he lost his family, his income, and was losing his health.  As good godly men, Job’s friends came from a far to offer comfort, advice, and to sit with him for a while. The advice that they gave Job was very biblical, but and yes there is a but, they did not see what God was doing behind the scenes. They did not take the time to pray for wisdom from God; instead they gave advice that causes great confusion. They zone in on the suffering that had to be brought upon Job from God with unconfessed sin. Job 5:17 states “Blessed is the one whom God corrects; so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty” Job’s friends told him repeatedly that he must have committed a sin to cause such great suffering, for God punishes the wicked, not the righteous.  At first Job was very clear that he had not committed a sin, but at the end of the conversation, Job started to doubt himself, and become confused by their advice. Job starts asking God to reveal the sin that he had committed.  Three godly friends were giving Job godly advice from their stand point, but to Job this advice was ungodly and cause great confusion on his part. Job’s friends could not see suffering as a way for God to grow Job into a better godly man, but as a way to punish him for wrong doing.

 

Through my year of suffering that was brought on by several storms, I begin to understand, and with God helping hand, this concept of godly advice.  First, I like to say I ran to the throne room, and beg for wisdom, and waiting for the answer patiently. Right! Instead, I turned to godly people for the advice that I so thought I needed now. The bible encourages us to seek godly advice when needed, but there is a flaw in this plan. This is due to sin that was entered into the world, because sin was introduced, it can corrupt people’s advice. We should be wise to ask for God’s insight into what He is doing in someone's life before giving advice.  We simple can't depend on what we see, but we cane depended on God!  

 

I have come to realize that godly people think with a human brain! Yes, godly people think with a human brain, and this could affect how advice is given. With Job’s friends they could not understand God bringing suffer to someone who had not sin because they were thinking with the human side of their brain. this resulted into great confusion.  I have had godly people give me godly advice, but like Job, it cause great confusion, and cause me to make the situation even worst. But let’s pause here for a second on this…it might have made the situation worst, but we serve a great God who can turn the impossible into the possible! And nothing, NOTHING can stop God’s will, we might mess it up, but HE can fix it!

 

To minimize great confusion in the future, before godly advice can be accepted, it needs to go through a filter that can determent if it is right for your situation. When godly advice is given to you ask yourself these questions:

 

1.       Who is the advice coming from?

2.       Where in the bible is this advice from?

3.       Can it be reference in correct content?

4.       What has God been telling you?

 

If you answer no to any of the question, it might be advice that could be taken at face value, but not conceder as godly advice.  NO ONE can tell you what you are hearing from God! That is something that is between you and God! And no one has a right to tell you that. God speak through His word and through different ways! I hear from God all the time, through prayer, reading devotions, and just being still.  A wise woman told me that it doesn’t have to make sense to the world, or your friends, or your family, it just has to make sense between you and God! That is it! So the next time you need godly advice, bend your knees, and ask God for the wisdom. And the next time a friend comes to you for godly advice, pray for wisdom from God before give them it. Remember nothing can stop God’s plan, we can derail it, or cause undo harm, but God can do the possible.
 
Written By Nikki McGann

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